Dear all,
I have five wonderful friends. They have been with me when I have needed them the most. They are very honest and funny. But Rosita is a promise breaker friend. She lives in the USA and every time that she tells me to chat online she never is connected. So I have to wait for hours but she never appears. What do you think I should do to change this situation?
Thanks for your piece of advice.
Teacher Ximena
Dear teacher Ximena, I think that is a very serious problem and think that you may move away of her.
ReplyDeleteI have 4 very good friends, they are most important for me; they are as brothers and sisters for me. I never had a toxic friend but a friend “Juan” had a controller friend. He would to go to a party and she said NO, he would to go to play football and she said: the football or me, he never could do anything.
Please give him an advice.
Dear Betto, I think that you friend Juan has to talk with her about your toxic relation.
ReplyDeleteIhave two wonderfull friends.But I had a toxic friend "Carla". She was a bad person. She puts me down because she didn`t like my best friends. She let me down when she told another friend my secret. We grew apart and now I am Happy. Please give me an advice
Dear Cristina, I think that you would talk with Carla and says that to be fixed in their problems...I don't have toxic friends, perhaps one but I think sometimes He is forgerful, but other sometimes I think He is very irresponsible when He had make homworks whit me and I say that He had must be, but He doesn't change, but He is a good friend He's Josue... =)
ReplyDeleteHi, Estefanía I think that you have a partner no a friend and in this case you could choose other for proyects because it's so unfair work like that.
ReplyDeleteI had a toxic friend for some years, I knew her in school but the last years in high school we had serious problems because she knew all about me and she let me down, when I heard that she spoke behind me and she was so jealous. But all came to the end when she told to my mother some heavy lying, for these reasons, today I choose very well between friends and partners.
Dear Carolina, I think same about We choose very well between and partners because there are some toxic friends we do not know well. Yesterday my best friend felt very bad and disappointed because she has a discloser friend, her friends counted all secrets her family and somebody knew my friend past events. But her family do not understand any explanation. What advice I should gives my best friend?.....
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ReplyDeleteDear Jose, I sorry what happened to your friend and I think she should be separated from that group of friends.
ReplyDeleteone must choose better at your friends to avoid these problems.
I have an incredible group of friends are how brothers, we are in all times good and bad moments but there is always exist a one person that does not think like all. He thinks only in yourself.
When one need help from he, he never to be with us but when he needs a thing is de first calling for help.
I don´t understand why people act this?
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ReplyDeleteDear Cristian, You should do is talk to him because he has that attitude. In such cases you should not expect anything from him because at any moment they may fail. Years ago I had a best friend, but became toxic friend, because she given out some things that I trust. She apologized for his mistake. Now, she talks to me but really is not the same.I am afraid that she would fail again.I should give her another chance
DeleteDear Adriana, you should talk about the problem with your friend. I had six friends in the high school. When we started to study in the University, we did not have much free time and I preferred to study. They went a lot of parties. I spoke up finally. It didn´t change! They hung out with new friends. They are happy and doesn´t finish the university. I do not understand. Last week I talked with Olivia. She invited me to her birthday party but I do not know that to do?
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ReplyDeleteI believe that everybody to make mistakes, but the serious mistakes can give up on with the friendship. Carolina, you should talk with your friend and to resolve the problem and you should choose between friends and acquaintances. I had a lot of toxic friends. Now i have a toxic friend she is “Soraya”, she is only interested in herself, she competes with me at all moment. Soraya is controller she wants makes all the decisions. I think that she is not my friend. For these reasons i consider that i have a few friends and the remainders are acquaintances.
Carolina. I think that you should go. Perhaps, your friend misses you, the old friends are never forgotten, when were good.
ReplyDeleteI had a good friend. Her name is "Marie”. We used to do everything together. When she has a new boyfriend, our friendship, it's over. Your boyfriend is a fault finder friend.
He invented things about me. My friend and I went back to talk anymore.
Yesterday she called me to say: “forgive me and continue our friendship". What can I do?
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ReplyDeleteHi, Carolina. I believe that everybody make mistakes, but the serious mistakes can give up on with the friendship, you should talk with your friend to resolve the problem, you should choose between friends and acquaintances. I had a lot of toxic friends. Now i have a toxic friend she is “Soraya”, she is only interested in herself, she competes with me at all moment. Soraya is controller she wants makes all the decisions. I think that she is not my friend. For these reasons i consider that i have a few friends and the rest are acquaintances.
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ReplyDeleteHi Dalia, I regret what is happening to you, but if you love to you friend, you have to forgive her, and give her a second oportunity. Of course before you should talk with honesty and never forget that their friendship comes first. Also if you are a good friend have to accept if your friend has a boyfriend. For example my best friend Santiago is married and his wife didn´t love me because she said that when I invited to him to leave, he forgot his family, I want to be a friend but I don´t know to keep my friendship and that my friend don´t have problems with his family?
ReplyDeleteDear Gustavo, I'm sorry what happened to his friend and I think these problems need not continue, you have that talk to your friend. good friendships should not be lost as well.
ReplyDeleteI knew Leidy five years ago, we were friends. But Leidy was very controller, she always decided that to do. Also she told my secrets to other people, she disappointed me. I'm tired of this situation and we broke our friendship. But she calls for me to forgive.
Dear Doris, Sometimes friends mistakes.I think you should talk about your feels and how you be disappointed. I think you will feel better when Leydi know what you think. Care can be a toxic friend.
ReplyDeleteI Knew Fabiola 6 years ago. She was my classmate and friend in the University. At this time we are professionals but I feel her is very competitor. She wants to always be the best and She does not be happy whit my victorys because She is very egoist. I not to do with this friendship.
Dear Ximena, I think your Fabiola`s friendship is not real because a real friend be happy when you have a victory. You don`t need an egoist friend, so you should move away from Fabiola.
ReplyDeleteI also have an egoist and controller friend. His name is Fabian. He never helps to his friends. He always like people make things that he wants. He decides what to do usually. What should I do with my friend?